This is the journey of one control freak wife and one gentle spirited husband as they seek to balance their

roles in their home
and bring an extra measure of joy to their already happy marriage.

Sunday, March 27, 2011

public adventure

Who would think that a night out to the movies could lead to so much spanking fun?

We had a date night on Thursday, since our adult daughter was home (a rarity anymore) and decided to go see Hall Pass before it was out of the theater (hilarious by the way).

I'm one of those who is way too impatient to sit through the credits, but much to my annoyance Steve kept sitting there watching the credits.  "Can we please go?"     "Not yet."    "Why not?"     "I have my reasons, now stop asking.  I'll tell you when I'm ready to go."    "Fine."    "It is fine, now be quiet."   Tick-tock....tick-tock, everyone left except for us and the cleaning crew walks in.   " OK, let's go."   "Finally!"  Steve just shook his head.     

We're walking down the long, dark hall towards the door alone when...... WHACK     "Ooooowwwwww!"    Steve grabs me by the arm and WHACK, WHACK, WHACK, WHACK, WHACK, WHACK.    "OOOOOOOWWWWWWW!!!!"  "I was just planning to give you a little fun semi-public fun spanking, but you just couldn't be patient."   WHACK, WHACK, WHACK  "OK, I'm sorry! The cleaning people are going to hear us."  "I'm not sure I care."  WHACK, WHACK, WHACK  "Let's go."  

I'm really not sure I've walked that fast before, but maybe if I knew what was going to happen next I would have walked slower.  As we are driving home, he pulls into the parking lot of our business building instead of the driveway to our house.  He pulled around to the side where we normally park because it is relatively private.  At first I'm excited because we have stopped here before at the end of a date night to fool around in the car like teenagers, but then something different happened.  "Get out."  I get out and he gets out.  "Come around to the back of the car and bend over."  I'm shocked, but I comply, and the next thing I know my pants and panties are being jerked down to my knees.  "What are you doing?"  "You are so impatient, either I am going to be in charge or I am not.  Which is it?"   "I want you to be in charge."  "Then you could at least let me make a decision about when to leave the movie theater, couldn't you?"  "Yes, I'm sorry."  I was totally embarrassed because I knew he was right.  I heard him unbuckle his belt and slide it through the loops.  I don't know what it is about that, but every sexual synapse was firing in my body.  He proceeded to whip my bottom with the belt too quickly and too many times for me to keep a count, but it was  a lot.  I started crying hard.

When he finished, he turned me around with my pants and panties now completely around my ankles.  "I love you so much, and I really want to make this work for us, but I don't think you realize how much you undermine me on the littlest things.  You are doing great on the big stuff, but it is all these little things that make me feel like I'm not the head of our household."  "I'm so sorry!!!" I sobbed.  He began kissing me passionately at that point and we made love right there on the trunk of the car.  I don't think I have ever been so in love with my husband, or so enraptured sexually.

I have more to catch you up on, but it is going to have to wait until later because I ended up going out of town on Friday evening and just got back about an hour and a half ago. I'm exhausted, but I couldn't go to bed though because I've been dying for two days to post about our date night.  I still get excited every time I think about it, not just from a sexual stand point, but also because of all it represents towards having the dd lifestyle I want.   


  1. Wow! I am unsure on whether to offer consolation or congratulations? It's pretty clear Steve has made up his mind about what "in charge means" to him! Those date nights might be getting pretty interesting! ;) Sara

  2. Wow!!!!!!! That was a very very hot post. :)

  3. Sara- congratulations definitely... yes he set my bottom on fire, but so was every other cell in my body.

    Bonnie-jo - Even hotter in person. I'm thinking of fictionalizing it and making a short story out of it.