This is the journey of one control freak wife and one gentle spirited husband as they seek to balance their

roles in their home
and bring an extra measure of joy to their already happy marriage.

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Eureka! He's starting to get it

Well I didn't hear him come in, but he read the note on his pillow while I was in the shower. I had gotten out of the shower and was dressed and brushing my teeth when he came up behind me, yanked down my pants and panties, bent me over the sink and delivered five really sharp whacks to my bare behind with his hand.  My husband is 6ft 2in. tall and has BIG hands to match. He turned me around and with a stern voice said, "You are going to stop trying to control this! We are going to work on this together. Do you understand?"  It took everything in me not to grin from ear to ear.  "Yes, thank you," I said.  He casually leaned against the wall and in his normal tone said, "So, is that what you had in mind?"  I couldn't help but smile then and embraced him and kissed him.  We had a nice conversation then about his desire to finish reading the book and us having a much more detailed conversation about what we are doing. His concern is that I don't really understand how it makes him feel when he is looking at my bruised behind and knows he did that.  He is really struggling with that.  He asked for my patience while he comes to terms with it and accepts my reassurances that I really am OK.


  1. Hi JW, and welcome the the neighborhood! You are among friends.

    The path you have chosen is not always easy, but it is well traveled. There are lots of helpful, articulate women (and men) who have been precisely where you are.

    If you would like to visit my blog, I have some spanking tutorials that you and your husband might find helpful. In addition, I have links to 400 blogs written by spanking and domestic discipline enthusiasts. Some are experts, but others are, like you, just beginning their journey.

    In any case, I'm glad you're here and if I can be of help, you need only ask.


  2. Hi JW and welcome to blogging! I wish you and your husband much luck on this arduous but quite wonderful journey you have embarked on!